SS Bday Party Issue is RESURRECTED!!!!!! Why me? | Step Talk

So after deciding that we would throw SS11 a bday party at the park (a neutral place), DH decides to tell me that were having it at our house. HERE WE GO AGAIN! He simply minimizes it to having a kids bday party at the house. Its more than that to me.

I wouldn't have a problem if he wasn't inviting BM. THATS MY PROBLEM with it. He thinks its not right and not fair for his son's mom to not be invited to his party at our house. He's delusional. Most divorced parents celebrate bdays and holidays separately. WTF is the problem? Its more common that these things are separate than combined!

So now he wants me to help out - in other words, run the party, facilitate it, while he grills the burgers in his oblivious little world. UMMMM, I do not want to run around like a chicken with my head cut off entertaining my ungreatful SS, his toxic mom and all her unaccepting family (AT MY HOUSE!) I could strangle him for this putting me in this unpleasant situation as if my family life isn't unpleasant enough.

Whats really bad is that he thinks I'm being difficult, uncooperative and childish because I'm not happy about HIS PLAN for his hell boy. I was willing to help if we had it at a neutral place (which was the plan) now he's changing it and it puts tremendous amounts of pressure and uneasiness on me.

He rather disappoint me then not invite BM. His child's feelings are more important than mine - that is clear. Now I'm supposed to be happy about that and entertain BM and "facilitate" a bday party for a bratty kid who has never thanked me for anything or can barely even acknowledge me and say hello to me in my own home.

IM FURIOUS! He's not budging either, he's unwilling to have it anywhere else.

Source: http://www.steptalk.org/node/85177

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